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Conférences Manipulation Mentale
EXITING THE DRAMA TRIANGLE
Every time that you experience a negative, discouraging and frustrating relationship, it's safe to say that you're unconsciously involved in an unhealthy drama triangle. You will find that the protagonists of your situation fits one of the following descriptions :The Victim : Pure and innocent, passive and powerless, whining and pitiful but strangely blundering and often infuriating.The Persecutor : Critical and demeaning, hurtful and cruel, threatening and even violent, and mostly overdosing on frustration that he tries to take out on... an innocent victim, of course.The Rescuer : Kind and generous, strong and selfless, patronizing and infantilizing, and very good at making you feel guilty. His motto is : "After all I've done for you !".Good news : There ARE solutions to get out this game : just come and listen to this conference !
Harassment is a phenomenon that's still largely misunderstood and underestimated. It's difficult to detect because it's an insidious and gradual process. The therapist and family entourage watches in frightened indifference, bordering on complacency. Harassment is a psychic destruction mechanism, close to predation. The most surprising thing in the victim's ordeal is how similar their stories seem to be. The procedure is strangely standard. What are the signs of emotional abuse? What impact does it have on the victim? What are the hidden costs for businesses? How do you avoid it, protect yourself, heal from it, and rebuild yourself ? This conference will answer all of these questions.
HOW TO ESCAPE MANIPULATIVE PEOPLE
Is there anyone out there who can honestly say they've never been manipulated ? Since the beginning of time, we've been surrounded by manipulative people. Their goal remains the same throughout the ages : to get what they want at our expense. Their techniques, simple and sophisticated at the same time, are amazingly effective. Entangling us in our own weaknesses, they transform us into puppets in the blink of an eye. The feeling of having been manipulated is a deeply unpleasant one. The guilt of having been fooled adds to the confusion of not understanding how it happened and to the fear that it could happen again. And thus, all the factors are in place so that you are even more easily manipulated next time. This conference provides you with the keys you need to understand and thwart manipulation.
DIVORCING A MANIPULATIVE SPOUSE, A FULL-TIME JOB
Although manipulative people have existed since the dawn of time, I'm always surprised to see how badly known these sinister individuals remain today. They're unfamiliar to the general public, to institutions, doctors, psychologists and experts, and worse still, unfamiliar to their victims, who only wake up when they're completely trapped. This conference is therefore :- An Ariadne's Thread to help victims escape their mental and legal labyrinth without being destroyed by their own personal Minotaur- A Keyhole to allow legal bodies and social services to have access to what is happening behind their back- An Alarm to wake up a society manipulated and brainwashed by a few hateful and destructive individuals.
CHILDREN OF MANIPULATIVE PARENTS AND HOW TO PROTECT THEM
When someone is manipulative, that person is manipulative with everyone : his family, his spouse, his neighbors, his colleagues, the police, the courts... So, why on earth would he not be manipulative with his own children ? Although he constantly boasts of being a good parent, the manipulative parent is an imposter. He will never develop the parenting skills necessary for the child to develop properly : unconditional love, protection, a safe environment, listening and permissions. At most, the manipulative parent will be from time to time either seductive or corruptive, but the rest of the time he will be true to form : critical, humiliating, abusive and destructive. Worse still : the denial of the specific nature of childhood is spreading throughout our society like wildfire.What are the risks? What are the consequences for these manipulated children ? What can the other parent do to limit the damage, whilst waiting for a collective awakening ?